A colleague called me the other day. After we discussed that for which we get remunerated, he switched gears and asked a simple style question. “When wearing a bow tie, can I wear it with a suit or should I wear a sport coat?” My answer was “either.” But his question made me think about how guys are hesitant to rock a bow tie at work. Functionally, it’s as useless as a necktie but the necktie became the standard for work. Some guys worry about being taken seriously if they wear a bow tie or becoming known as “the guy that wears bow ties.”
It’s common to see bow ties worn in the medical and legal professions and in academia.
And bow ties are certainly associated with black or white tie events and recently have caught on with younger guys. However with a couple of exceptions, like the recent camo trend, a bow tie can be blended into any work wardrobe. It just needs to be appropriate for your workplace and your personal style.
First order of business, learn how to tie a bow tie.
Clip-on bow ties are not acceptable and all attempts to be taken seriously will be thwarted by the clip-on.
Further, a clip-on will cause great harm to the male adult bow tie wearing population as your lack of tying skill will make people question your brethren.
Seriously though, there are plenty of guides available and you can see one tied step by step on
http://www.youtube.com/ or
http://www.ehow.com/.
Also, tying your own bow tie allows you to personalize it.
Second, take a similar approach to selecting a bow tie as you do a necktie. Make sure the color compliments your complexion. Consider the scale of the pattern and of course it should be work appropriate.
Third and most importantly, pick your shirt wisely. There’s a lot of real estate between your neck and your waistline and it’s exposed when you wear a bow tie. I prefer a shirt with vertical stripes. A shirt with a contrasting collar looks good too. If solid color shirts are your thing, I recommend a pocket square in a color that brings the bow tie and shirt together.
Don’t be afraid to mix things up a bit. There are a slew of great bow tie patterns out there appropriate for any environment. So go ahead. Tie one on.